The start of a new year often brings renewed focus on self-improvement. While working for improvement is a noble and worthwhile cause, there exists a lot of noise and conflicting messaging.

The truth of course is there is no single path, no silver bullet. Rather than following the hashtags, I think the best option is to focus on whichever message resonates within you. Everyone is unique and driven by different motivators and aspirations. Much like diets, you are much more likely to follow one that fits your lifestyle, current situation, and ultimate goals.

Do your research and check out a bunch of different styles. Try them on for size. I’ve provided a few examples via the links above, but in no way an exhaustive list. The guides and mentors are helpful reinforcements, but ultimately the person in the mirror owns the results.